The Handbook of Epictetus
Handbook 34
Translated by Clint Miller
When you receive the impression of some pleasure, guard yourself, as with impressions generally, so that it does not sweep you away. Let the thing wait for you; grant yourself a delay. Then call to mind both times: the time when you will enjoy the pleasure, and the time afterward, when you will regret it and berate yourself. Set against these how glad you will be if you abstain, and how you will praise yourself. But if the moment does seem right to take up the act, be careful that its charm and sweetness and pull do not defeat you. Set against it this: how much better it is to know, within yourself, that you have won this victory.
ὅταν ἡδονῆς τινος φαντασίαν λάβῃς, καθάπερ ἐπὶ τῶν ἄλλων, φύλασσε σαυτόν, μὴ συναρπασθῇς ὑπ’ αὐτῆς· ἀλλ’ ἐκδεξάσθω σε τὸ πρᾶγμα, καὶ ἀναβολήν τινα παρὰ σεαυτοῦ λάβε. ἔπειτα μνήσθητι ἀμφοτέρων τῶν χρόνων, καθ’ ὅν τε ἀπολαύσεις τῆς ἡδονῆς, καὶ καθ’ ὃν ἀπολαύσας ὕστερον μετανοήσεις καὶ αὐτὸς σεαυτῷ λοιδορήσῃ· καὶ τούτοις ἀντίθες ὅπως ἀποσχόμενος χαιρήσεις καὶ ἐπαινέσεις αὐτὸς σεαυτόν. ἐὰν δέ σοι καιρὸς φανῇ ἅψασθαι τοῦ ἔργου, πρόσεχε, μὴ ἡττήσῃ σε τὸ προσηνὲς αὐτοῦ καὶ ἡδὺ καὶ ἐπαγωγόν· ἀλλ’ ἀντιτίθει, πόσῳ ἄμεινον τὸ συνειδέναι σεαυτῷ ταύτην τὴν νίκην νενικηκότι.