The Handbook of Epictetus
Handbook 33.10
Translated by Clint Miller
There is no need to attend the shows very often. But if the occasion arises, do not visibly root for anyone but yourself – that is, wish only for what happens to happen, and only for the winner to win; then you will not be blocked. Refrain completely from shouting, from laughing at anyone, from getting worked up. And after you leave, do not talk much about what happened, beyond what contributes to your own improvement – for talk like that reveals that the spectacle dazzled you.
εἰς τὰ θέατρα τὸ πολὺ παριέναι οὐκ ἀναγκαῖον. εἰ δέ ποτε καιρὸς εἴη, μηδενὶ σπουδάζων φαίνου ἢ σεαυτῷ, τοῦτ’ ἔστι. θέλε γίνεσθαι μόνα τὰ γινόμενα καὶ νικᾶν μόνον τὸν νικῶντα· οὕτω γὰρ οὐκ ἐμποδισθήσῃ. βοῆς δὲ καὶ τοῦ ἐπιγελᾶν τινι ἢ ἐπὶ πολὺ συγκινεῖσθαι παντελῶς ἀπέχου. καὶ μετὰ τὸ ἀπαλλαγῆναι μὴ πολλὰ περὶ τῶν γεγενημένων διαλέγου, ὅσα μὴ φέρει πρὸς τὴν σὴν ἐπανόρθωσιν· ἐμφαίνεται γὰρ ἐκ τοῦ τοιούτου, ὅτι ἐθαύμασας τὴν θέαν.