The Handbook of Epictetus
Handbook 5
Translated by Clint Miller
It is not things that disturb people, but their judgments about things. Death, for instance, is nothing terrible – otherwise it would have seemed so to Socrates too. No, the judgment about death, that it is terrible: that is the terrible thing. So whenever we are blocked or disturbed or grieved, let us never blame anyone else, but ourselves – that is, our own judgments. It is the work of someone with no education to accuse others when he is doing badly; of someone whose education has begun, to accuse himself; of someone fully educated, to accuse neither another nor himself.
ταράσσει τοὺς ἀνθρώπους οὐ τὰ πράγματα, ἀλλὰ τὰ περὶ τῶν πραγμάτων δόγματα· οἷον ὁ θάνατος οὐδὲν δεινόν (ἐπεὶ καὶ Σωκράτει ἂν ἐφαίνετο), ἀλλὰ τὸ δόγμα τὸ περὶ τοῦ θανάτου, διότι δεινόν, ἐκεῖνο τὸ δεινόν ἐστιν. ὅταν οὖν ἐμποδιζώμεθα ἢ ταρασσώμεθα ἢ λυπώμεθα, μηδέποτε ἄλλον αἰτιώμεθα, ἀλλ’ ἑαυτούς, τοῦτ’ ἔστι τὰ ἑαυτῶν δόγματα. ἀπαιδεύτου ἔργον τὸ ἄλλοις ἐγκαλεῖν, ἐφ’ οἷς αὐτὸς πράσσει κακῶς· ἠργμένου παιδεύεσθαι τὸ ἑαυτῷ· πεπαιδευμένου τὸ μήτε ἄλλῳ μήτε ἑαυτῷ.